I first wrote this post about my dating experience in Medellin back in April of Medellin women are beautiful, and word is spreading pretty much around the world. Therefore, I have decided to document my experience. Places frequented by tourists in Medellin are more saturated with foreigners than before. Also, this is a narrative of my own experiences. Lastly, I do not intend to degrade or belittle Colombian women.
Medellin just happens to have many of them. My situation is a little different than most foreigners here in Colombia. I have lived my entire life, barring the last few years, in Southern California.
At first glance, Medellin women do not perceive me as a foreigner due to the way I look. It is an immediate sense of curiosity that some Colombian women have upon meeting a foreigner. I do not get that immediate attention here in Medellin. Quieres practicar? Regardless, I look on the bright side and see this as an advantage. I have found that Medellin women, as in most parts of the world, love compliments, good conversation, and like it when a guy can make them laugh.
So Spanish has been essential for me here in Medellin. Meeting women in Medellin is not hard. Socially, women are a little different than the southern California women I was used to meeting. It is not usual for women in Medellin to go out by themselves just to let loose. Typically, very beautiful girls in Medellin will go to a bar or a nightclub in a group, and many times there will be guys in that group.
For an emasculated man from the United States, this is a nightmare. Here in Medellin, you do NOT need to play that game. I do this often, and many times I will dance one or two songs without even saying a word. I get in there and leave silently. Amazingly, when I do that, women are more attracted than when I start talking to them while dancing. I started to read about this subject back in high school.
