Stuff we feel neutral about: Chicken pot pie. But one thing you shouldn't have a take-it-or-leave-it attitude towards is tongue action. Oral is the form of sex that the majority of women say is most likely to give them an orgasm, says sex therapist Ian Kerner, PhD, author of She Comes First. Put these tips. Oral often gets bundled along with kissing and stroking as a form of foreplay, but because it's so intense, you actually need to warm up before he heads south of your border.
Since men tend to get aroused faster than women, his instinct will probably be to start pleasuring you within 90 seconds of hitting the sheets, but stave him off by extending the time you spend touching, licking, nibbling, and talking dirty to each other. When he does go down on you, instead of diving right in, encourage him to tantalize your entire V-zone first.
Sexily say something like, "Make me want it so bad that I'm dripping wet, and don't give it to me until I beg you.
Then ask him to lick, kiss, and massage your inner thighs and pubic area before proceeding to the bull's eye. At first, most women crave a soft touch during oral sex β¦and then the more turned on you get, the more pressure you desire.
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Things that felt uncomfortable at the beginning might not be enough towards the endβso it's understandably tricky for men to get it right. If he's too rough, tell him, "I love what you're doing, but go just a little softer. Even though you're relaxing on your back, while he's doing most of the work, don't check out. One move that makes lots of women horny is grinding against their man's mouth.
