The dynamics of sexual energy between the receiver and a giver play an important role during tantra massage and people often think hard about who they choose as their tantra massage guide. Of course there is considerable difference between a massage done by a woman and a man.
Contrary to most women, men usually have no problem to intimately open themselves to a stranger on a physical level. That is why most women choose a giver according to their sexual preferences; that is mostly females but also there is a group of men who hesitate. If we talk about a homosexual man the choice of a male giver is obvious because his touching and closeness is according to his preferences and is attractive hence awaking sexual energy tantra works with during massage.
Bisexual men or men with completely radically straight orientation have a more difficult choice; whether to experience female tenderness or firmer yet still pleasant male touch? Once decisive factor can be the understanding a man knows male body better than a woman so he has higher chances of spotting what a particular client needs. According to our experience another factor is even more important, and that is a change.
While a bisexual man living with a male partner often prefers a massage done by a woman, a man with the same preference living with a female partner often with a family wants a change in his life and gets a male giver for a tantra massage. This way both can experience another part of their sexuality than they are used to at home without any shame of cheating.
The largest group of men that are attracted to women might not even consider thinking about having a massage done by men. Nevertheless even here there are many pro reasons, one of which is in my opinion better self-understanding.
